If a man cannot travel the four seas to come see you then he is not the man for you. Unfortunately, I had to learn this the hard way and wasted $$$ and time. And now, the bar gets set a whole lot higher for the next guy.

It is not like they will be missed anyway because the guy was always busy doing something else and wouldn't take advantage of the time when I was there. When you are in love you don't want to believe the things people observe. But you have to look at the way this person treats you and know that you deserve to be treated better. 

If that guy is not willing to go above and beyond for you then he is not worth it. And I can't be in love with someone who was never there to begin with.