Great News!
I'm very ecstatic today! I just found out my time off has been approved, which means I can take my trip to DC! Yay! That means I can see my boyfriend and the two of us can begin to take things to the next level. I feel like he is the one that I could spend my whole life with so I am expecting a lot out of this trip! I want to come back on cloud 11! I hope that I will have a ring on my finger.
I just feel like I have acquired everything that I need. I am not saying that a man makes my life complete because I was not looking for a man. A man just happened to fall in my lap. I have been single all my life and never had to rely on a man to make me feel complete. I mean sure there have been some 'fly byes' but nothing as important as this relationship right now.
I just know that others who married young always feel like they haven't accomplished certain things, like going to college; and I have accomplished that. I have accomplished all that I need right now--except a steady career, but who says you can't start that when you get married? Especially if you don't have any kids yet. If I have a man that supports everything I do then gaining a career while I'm married should not be a problem. People go to school in their married years so I don't see anything wrong. The only thing is later on, if I were to gain a career, could it change me? Could I become too involved in my career and neglected my relationship? That could lead to a disaster. But you never know. I don't see anything wrong with giving this a shot.
I have a friend who was living in the south and there was nothing for her there. So, she had to move in with her boyfriend in DC. Now she has a job and they are now married and have a child. Of course me and my boyfriend agreed that we would like to wait until later to have children but you never know with things like that. I feel like we can definitely fulfill each other's needs and be there for each other.
